I've been a bit quiet lately and thought I'd send an update of how things are going.
I've been trying to adjust to the new situation. Even though Stephen and I are not in a relationship anymore we still share a house (rental lease isn't finished until April next year).
Given the huge discrepancy in our incomes, Stephen is still paying most of the joint bills. Most of my meagre wages go towards my personal bills (loans, insurances etc) and paying back the money we borrowed from mum and Debbie.
Stephen's current contract (which he hates) finishes in 10 days. The only contracts he applied for are in Melbourne and Singapore. What this means for the cats and I? Well that depends on the length of contract.
If its a short term contract he will leave his stuff here and apparently help supplement the rent. I'll have to obviously pick up the rest of the bills, water, electricity, etc. Then apparently, Stephen will be back in March and then we pack up our respective stuffs, him off to wherever and I'll stay in Perth. Frankly I just can't afford to move anywhere else.
Stephen (as I now know) has a track record of moving on and leaving those he has left behind to pack and forward his stuff for him. He hates Perth, he currently hates me, hates the cats and hates his life. Once he leaves I cannot see him ever returning. Nor, (now knowing his fiscal responsibilities or lack thereof) do I really expect any assistance with the rent and bills once he leaves.
But frankly, with the situation as it is at the moment, I can't wait until he goes. He's stressed over the finances and wants to leave Perth so badly, that he's taking all the stress out on me and the cats (though not physically yet). When he leaves he will be happier; I'll be going deeper into debt but happier, and the cats will be happier.