Do you remember it he midst of the excitement of the past few days, I kept mentioning that there was one major issue we still needed to discuss and if we worked that one out, then I was certain we could work out everything else.Well we had *that* conversation last night and there were misassumptions made on both parts and this will not be an issue that will be solved easily if at all.
So marriage is off the table for the time being. I wont go into any further detail and I doubt I will be online much for the next few days.
I'm truly sorry I dragged you all onto this roller-coaster with me for the past few days. I should have just kept my stupid mouth shut until all the details had been discussed.
I'm truly truly sorry I said anything at all.
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Please don't be sorry and we're here if you need to talk
ditto; you know where I am if you need to bitch or let off steam.
Damn.....
Strangely enough for me - I have no need to vent or to bitch (yeah I know weird huh).
I just feel incredibly sad. And very very stupid for my own misunderstandings of certain things .....
Ouch. Hugs.
Oh, sweetheart. Sending you lots of hugs. How sucky. Thinking of you. It sounds like you've got lots of shoulders for leaning and ears for listening, but there are more here if you need them.
I'm really sorry to hear this. You know we are all here for you. And no hiding allowed!
Well, rats - I was so hoping.... You know I'm here for you if needed....
Dear, you may feel sad and stupid, but please, don't be sorry! Just come back in your own time.
You're not alone in this, we're all here when you need us!
I hope that you guys can work this through, but you know we are here for you regardless! {{{hugs}}}
Just huge hugs coming your way Mel
We're always here for you Mel - both the ups and the downs! Take care of yourself.
No worries - we're here, we understand... just take care of Gothy
{{{Mel}}}
Take care of you and know that we're all here for you should you need us...
thanks everyone - regardless how it all ends up I firmly believe we'll come out of this with the friendship intact - maybe just not married.
As Paula and others have said previously - its when communication breaks down or there are misunderstandings that problems occur.
it also helps that I'm over the initial emotional shock of all the ups and downs ...... no more panicking now :) Good or bad :)
I hope it all comes out up Mel!
Hope that all things work out for you. I am trying to catch up and you have me on that same rollercoaster, reading all your past few days posts in just a couple minutes!!!
Oh, Mel! I should've read all the way throught the posts before responding! Hang in there, things have a way of working themselves out. I'll be thinking of you!
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